😙Hey Real Men!
So am out to get you this time :D [Just kidding]. Well am
sure you all had your time with the last article on ‘shocking truth# what church girls ignore
but real men find sexy?’ . The
tables have turned.
A church boy said: “Yeah! There are some things the
church didn’t prepare us for… but without the church, there were some things we
could never face”
WARNING: If you happen to be a ‘saint’,
this might be “unholy” for you, so please don’t read further.
DISCLAIMER:
This might generate a lot of
arguments about whether or not it’s appropriate considering am not ‘a real
man’, I am not above corrections, so feel free to swag or slam :D .
1.
You’ve Got Talent?!
A man who knows his way around his instruments, knows his way
around his ‘instrument’, u got that? :D
Whether it’s your guitar-playing ability, your handyman
expertise or penchant for photography, women love a man who has a passion and
is good at it. There’s something very alluring about a lively, interesting guy
with skills! :D
2.
Listening Ability
Fellaz, maybe you impress easily, but the fact that you
actually remember how you order your lattes or that your favorite writer’s new
novel is out is a huge deal! As ladies, a guy who hears us and remembers our
favorite things is extremely sexy. The ability to just listen and not
necessarily give us direction is also a bonus.
3.
Confidence
Ask any woman what makes a guy sexy and the collective answer
is "confidence." A man who is self-assured and knows what he wants is
admirable and makes us feel secure when we are with him. [You know, have that
macho JAMES BOND aura, we totally dig that :D]
4.
A great kisser [that’s top notch :D ]
“Zac Efron’s style? Now that’s totally sexy”
Stop giving me that look o :D _ now this is what I still
wouldn’t whether or not it is wrong to kiss in a relationship, as I stated
earlier on in the previous article, listen to your pastors :D . Nonetheless, a
man who is a great kisser is just like jam on toasted bread. In the marital
context, you’re not too far from a great steamy make-out session_ in-fact a
well-executed kiss is always your ticket to the main event, you got that? :D
.So drop that awkward mindset, and read up, don’t be like those men who act as
though a woman’s supple tender lips is shaki or amala that needs to be devoured
[oops :D ].
5.
Smarty Pants
“He’s got brains”
Long after the looks fade, there’s a trait that can keep we
the ladies in love with you forever. It’s called intelligence. A real man who’s
got that has a big advantage in life and love. Read books, surf the internet
for Godly but down to earth materials on how to treat your woman right [books: EVERY WOMAN & HIS NEEDS, HER
NEEDS :D ], this holds up to 85% on our sexy profile.
6.
A Great sweet Smile
In the physical realm, we all prefer different body types and
sizes. One thing most women agree upon and notice immediately is a guy with a
genuine smile. Having nice teeth is also a bonus [by this I mean clean teeth,
may not be ‘white’ in colour but there shouldn’t be plagues etc. :D]. This
tells us ladies that you take good care of yourself [o! ensure that big great
smile is accompanied with a fresh breath too hehehe :D]
7.
Kindness
“He’s great with kids. He’s thoughtful and loving with his
friends and family”
This is a fantastic indicator that you will be good to us as
well, and why kindness is a very desirable trait.
8.
Humor Us please
Laughter is the best therapy for dealing with life’s harsher
moments. Being with a guy who has an excellent sense of humor and can also find
the funny during tough times is a real find – and needless to say, sexy.
9.
Twig Eye Contact
Many women commented that a man who could look her in the eye
was the definition of sincere and sexy. Now, a guy with great eyes who isn't
afraid to look into ours can make us a little weak in the knees. We love such connection.
10.
Away with “Drama kings”
A guy who has got it all figured out - and doesn't come
bearing lots of drama, exes, or other issues, is refreshing, impressive and
very appealing, totally sexy.
11.
‘The Voice’
“We’re talking James Earl Jones’ voice”
David Beckham is lucky he's got great looks, because his
voice ... not so sexy. An average-looking guy with an amazing voice can
increase his sexy ranking a few notches. Throw an accent in there and they are
golden in our eyes! I personally dig that.
12.
Dress sense
“Package your swag tight, not
that nigga-gangster-in-the-hood-tattoos-all-pierced kinda look [whatever that
means]”
the character Barney in "how i met your mother" TV series would say, "suit up...it would be legendary". As much as I would not want to impose my idea of a good dress
sense, this plays a vital role. A real man with a poor dress sense, would not even
be given the opportunity to express one-third of the above mentioned, asin,
you’ll be shut out before you get the chance to say hello. On a scale of 1-10, a
real man who walks up to us ladies all tushed up looking like George Clooney or
Chidi Mokeme or John Dumelo is like a 10 on our “sexy
scale”, don’t come dragging your slippers with saliva all over and saying
what? Sorry I didn’t get you.
Real men always keep it real, don’t go beyond your budgets
though, simplicity is also the ultimate sophistication, but let us know that
you twig dress sense, that’s so sexy.
That wasn’t so bad afterall, So
now you know the secrets. You’ve also looked behind the curtain and found
exactly what us ladies notice when we’re out and about as-well. Above that, you
now know why we ladies look for these things outside the church. You want to
make us ladies feel there’s no doubt you would rock our world if you are lucky
enough to wed us? That’s the simple way out. However, if you see that pouring
off of you, you’d better believe we’ll be fighting for that chance with you.
